Despite lack of formal education on either side my parents
lived peacefully ,joyfully and without much desires or ambition to accomplish except to make their children to do well in
life and their full time engagement was with the profession which was
physically more taxing and demanding as there was no additional labor to
assist.
I do not know to what extent they were compatible and accommodating
with each other.there was some good
village chemistry to cement the relation.To be fair AND HONEST THEY WERE
SO engrossed and involved in work from early dawn to night , not dusk there was
little time to quarrel, if at all they wanted to have one.
I was brought up in such as a sweet home. Their sweat and
labour were transformed into nutrients for my body and mind, every year they
would extract gingley oil also called Nalla Ennai(good oil) from sesame seed from the revolving/or rotating wooden structure driven by bullocks, some
county sugar from palm tree added to it
during the process of churning and stored in a big earthern pot;,.many
other food items like Door dal tamarind , chilies and others were
purchased during the season and the ground nut oil too purchased in 15 kg
tin from the town
There was a cow and occasionally a hen .I vivdly remember
going along with my mother in ging out to collect fodder-green grass or
sometimes collect firewood. My mother was a hard worker very slim till the end
hale and healthy and had all the concern for the truncated joint family. My
father was the first son in the family and had three younger brothers and also
a sister. Like the US monetary policy until mid 60s the role of my mother was
sensible and responsible though she used to grumble a little when other
brothers were grown up and had families of their own. Caring parents good
school, nice teachers, family get together and my father contributing in a
modest way to keep the flock together as
he was economically better half. When I think about the hard work and business ethics of my
parents tears well up in my eyes and I want to be united with them in all the
births.
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