Thinking and imagining about a girl through economic lense, ie via commonsense

A girl is like a river,clean gently flowing river

Life flows in her and glows

Without her presence as life partner

Life giving force there is neither life nor love

Like nature she is full of life love and grace 

She is like a beautiful rose with the thorn

Small wonder then she has both fragrance and

Her sense of autonomy and freedom of action

You can neither wound nor offend her finer sensibility

So there's opportunity cost in marrying and living

A lot of give and take, great deal of tolerance, patience and perseverance and real understanding that she is not

Commodity or thing  to play with and show custom driven

Arrogance  and dominance over female body as his territory at his will, unmindful of her likes and dislikes

While loving a girl or getting  trapped by arranged marriage

Kindly remember the cost benefit on the emotional quotient and lament thereafter:

 Not being able to do what we thought or

Not being able to think what we did

Getting an ideal partner is just like searching for 

Full moon on all days of the month,

The age old saying that in friendship ones patience

Sustains friendship between the two also holds good

Is more relevant on marital waters.

When one is momentarily insane the other muse excessive

Patience and exercise utmost restraint on tongue

And wait for a moment to laugh away the problem

Shedding ego and the one who initiates first to defuse the tension,

Invariably is the winner of the game and saviour of life game

Traditional rivers have gone dry or disappeared

And looted and raped by inhuman development

Native rose is no longer there

Divorce has become a catch word or phrase

Which crops up at the slightest excuse in hitech

Glass curtain economy

More than the  girl the boy has to invest time in 

Understanding the girl and provide freedom.

All said and done ,where is the girl for eligible bachelors

Real bachelors doing tapas for a girl with all prayers

Suddenly girls have become scarce and not reachable

By decent and honest means and caste barriers play

 The road block draining life of many youngsters..

Will rivers flow and traditional roses thrive and  give life

To the broader humanity

I repeat girl, like nature rejuvenates life force 

And help create a better world as articulated by

Sangam literature

A letter to my Motherland from Adelaide 1

My dear Motherland

It is my honour and privilege to write from a land  Australia a continental world within a world, where your children thrive and survive rendering work earning livelihood without the oppressive hand of bureaucracy and regulatory mechanisms.A beautiful country with incredible coastlines and hospitable people.

Unlike my parents and grandparents I was born in your womb when you were freed from British rule.You had become independent then and our first PM who built you from the scratch, and evolved as great statesman of international repute is now ridiculed by political upstarts and illiterate in economics not aware of  the nuances of devaluation or demonetization but having an inflated ego and misplaced arrogance to fool the people for long  by telling lies and cumulative lies.

When I type this letter Sri Lanka is burning in the wake of deep seated economic and political crisis and this is a lesson for any power mongering politician leading life with the escort of thousand cars, and virtually sapping the energy, sensibility and dignity of people by savage taxation and papering the rich and the corrupt..

Let me go to the text..

You are a vibrant nation, more young and more spiritual as compared to other nations in the world . Yes my dear, great mother land, union of States rich in diversity and different culture..while others are ageing you have a youthful population

In technical language of economics you have the favourable demographic dividend, meaning large youthful workforce which must help generate more output and employment and GDP must make a Quantum jump.In the language of Lawn Tennis it is advantage India..

Oh my dear are you in that position?Is the suggestion mooted in some circle,....go and sell pakoda will be a right way of exploitating your potential as if there's nothing in your bosom to raise fruitful jobs..

I can only remember Poet Bharathi and Pattukottai kalyanasundaram and lament how honesty is penalized and dishonesty is given bonus a la C N Annadurai.

To be continued.