Thinking and imagining about a girl through economic lense, ie via commonsense

A girl is like a river,clean gently flowing river

Life flows in her and glows

Without her presence as life partner

Life giving force there is neither life nor love

Like nature she is full of life love and grace 

She is like a beautiful rose with the thorn

Small wonder then she has both fragrance and

Her sense of autonomy and freedom of action

You can neither wound nor offend her finer sensibility

So there's opportunity cost in marrying and living

A lot of give and take, great deal of tolerance, patience and perseverance and real understanding that she is not

Commodity or thing  to play with and show custom driven

Arrogance  and dominance over female body as his territory at his will, unmindful of her likes and dislikes

While loving a girl or getting  trapped by arranged marriage

Kindly remember the cost benefit on the emotional quotient and lament thereafter:

 Not being able to do what we thought or

Not being able to think what we did

Getting an ideal partner is just like searching for 

Full moon on all days of the month,

The age old saying that in friendship ones patience

Sustains friendship between the two also holds good

Is more relevant on marital waters.

When one is momentarily insane the other muse excessive

Patience and exercise utmost restraint on tongue

And wait for a moment to laugh away the problem

Shedding ego and the one who initiates first to defuse the tension,

Invariably is the winner of the game and saviour of life game

Traditional rivers have gone dry or disappeared

And looted and raped by inhuman development

Native rose is no longer there

Divorce has become a catch word or phrase

Which crops up at the slightest excuse in hitech

Glass curtain economy

More than the  girl the boy has to invest time in 

Understanding the girl and provide freedom.

All said and done ,where is the girl for eligible bachelors

Real bachelors doing tapas for a girl with all prayers

Suddenly girls have become scarce and not reachable

By decent and honest means and caste barriers play

 The road block draining life of many youngsters..

Will rivers flow and traditional roses thrive and  give life

To the broader humanity

I repeat girl, like nature rejuvenates life force 

And help create a better world as articulated by

Sangam literature