Monday, June 16, 2014

Cyber Intimacy:a few case studies

Let me narrate a few episodes that have come to my notice. A real story: They were schoolmates’ once. Good friends. After their graduation they drifted in different directions professionally got located in different countries.
Many years after there is an accidental meet and in the cyber intimacy world where moral universe has taken a shape altogether differently there is no inhibition for them to have sex.While the boy wants to marry her and desire to have his baby the girl refuses and decides to abort the child. She is not keen on marriage too. Given the chance and the familiarity of the person she has just yielded to her bodily needs and for all practical purpose it is a casual sexual encounter a sort of steamy affair not fully connecting emotionally and there is no regret.

The boy is puzzled and unable and unwilling to digest. He is told that she is already in a relationship with somebody in London .Whom she will marry? That is her concern. We are not here to judge her attitude or approach. I have just narrated what has happened. It is a typical case of girl behaving with boyish tendancy  enjoying the found freedom in the global cyber village without any inhibitions

Will there be any happy ending for those connected through machine. There are quite a few who treat the female body as mere objects and inject the desires into the molecules of their brain, chat for long, give false promises and then finally back out. In one such case I know the boy has become the villain. Telling the caste as a hindrance and that his parents will not agree the boy  sorry the man touching 40 says  NO. The irony is that the hero in question is a divorcee,  handsome, soft mannered and look like a gentleman and learning yoga.

The simple question is why this intelligent fool did seduce an unfortunate woman whose entire marital life lasting for a brief period was a great disaster and that she has had many accidents in her life. Is girl a plaything to be twisted and played with?

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