Sunday, November 29, 2015

Positive fall out of the disturbed terrific night:Professor Aravanan came again in my dream...Reminding me life itself is a dream and nothing to worry

The new depression  has formed near Ceylon/Andaman islands and TN and Puducherry are likely to experience some mild effects. But even before that  the residual intense cough and the latent heat came to the surface. Despite going to sleep before 9 to regulate the sleep pattern disciplne myself and regain the lost sleep  the whole night seemed to be an endless struggle and i do not remember how many times I got up. Making a recourse to some cough syrup and a spoon of honey with hot water did give some relief  but the whole night was just unforgettable. However, the positive fallout was that my boy - not a direct student- but more than the student,  prof Aravanan came in my dream in multiple layers after a long gap
For those who may not be familiar with him it is  sufficient to say that he was a great professor in commerce  more popular among the students and learned scholars  more dedicated to the subject  and a typical 24 hour teacher. Given his proximity with me and his own specialised knowledge in stock market and foreign exchange economics most of my MIM and MBA students took his soft core papers.they all loved and respected him as his own regular students.
Now the dream part:
I am sitting in a class room may be in the SOM new building where commerce dept is housed. Aravanan had already come there and I did not notice him. After seeing him i go near to him and say sorry that I have not grasped his presence.
Dream 2:My first son- in- law who was one of his favourite students and also in a sense relative narrates to me in the second layer of the dream....He says: it seems   Aravanan sir has gone to your home and asked Somu:”Will you give the  Mama’s Activa key ; I want to go to university and safely return the scooter back”
 Finally about the dream (that is still etched in my memory) which  a fortnifgt after his demise came in two stages in successive weeks  :We are travelling in the university bus At that time ( in the dream ) he had taken VRS on personal grounds for record purpose. I am still in service ask him why he has taken the trouble of coming to the campus? He replies: I do not feel at home in my home.I am more comfortable here in my room and the library. I have decided to visit the university daily......
 Another dream :I am alone in the new campus  Silver jubilee building..Perhaps a holiday kind of atmosphere..  not a single soul is present in the building .I am sitting  alone in the verandha on a chair with a small desk before me and writing something;at a distance on the green lawns I watch  Aravanan coming slowly and hesitantly towards me. It is something surprising that despite the distance of some metres i could clearly see the longing and lingering desire in his eyes to see me and talk to me. In the dream itself I remember how he had avoided me and Prof  santhalingam on M G street corner.  In his final days(which he was not aware of ) he had distanced himself from many with whom he was very close emotionally  

I put on the light it was around 4 am  and I noted the contents of the dream inclusive of one that came long ago  lest I would forget . Having lost even the disturbed sleep  I did not venture/want to type ,scared of my daughter’s scolding.  In any case the   head-ache returned and gave company till 7 am .The sun was shining brightly with intermittent rain.

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