The other
day I wrote a few lines from Thomas Murray for young children. Children are not
only stubborn and aggressive some time and they seek purity of attention. Yes, they need to be noticed
and appreciated because they want it and crave for love and approval. They are
also possessive. Love locked into our hearts does not reach them unless it is told.
It is like a letter written but never posted.
Now a day we
do not even write letters but scribble an e mail in a hurry which is not a substitute for the
traditional paper which carried our emotions. In this dehumanized age and
hi-tech world, we tend to rein in emotions. We withhold words of love,
admiration and approval. How can others know unless we tell them?
It is not
just children all of us badly need words love and affectionate smile to fill
the void to help fill the vacuums in life so as to come out of depression and despair.
I am sure, with the exception of a few
most of us have not done justice to our parents in one important respect ie we have not sat
and spent time and listened to them when they were alive
Regardless
of your age and background- be it intellectual or financial you are an emotional being
and hence you need love and affection and recognition for the work.
Sweet and gentle words, friendly eyes and purity of attention to children’s woes
and their loneliness, will make them energetic. A few words like,”I love you. I
am proud of you I am glad you are here” will give more happiness. They are
really “ few bright threads in the dull
fabric of life.”
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