Is it an old saying..it is a sentence I have taken down from a novel, the title of which I do not remember.Torn between an undeniably sexual interest and a fear of acting out fantasies, she hardly dared to admit to..... the sentence moves like this...
I want to tell a good saying:
If you are without wife or a widower make it a point to submit all your sex impulses to work.That will not only save you from falling into dirt and filth but also bring the best in you
Coreecf me if I am wrong.This does not imply that given an opportunity and a sense of reciprocity with all civility and cultured behaviour you can act out and translate your sexual interest in the most uninhibited manner..while this is feasible in a typical western environment ,there are impediments for everyone to attain sexual sanity, stability and equilibrium...
Second time I watched the movie Kilometres and kilometres , a Malayalam movie which addresses this question in a more polite and polished way.....how love flowers between the US lady tourist and the debt ridden typical young fellow without income but having all the technical skills under the sun...
Like weather, sex is real and it's high time everone especially the young, living alone for want of partners understood its relevance and they should have freedom to choose their partners crossing the borders of caste and religion if they happen to be barriers.
In the movie there is a healthy and dignified distance between the two and indeed the girl is selfish arrogant and does not hesitate to say that money is everything and relations are nothing...
There's a dramatic shift in their feelings for each other and the narrative is neat and clean..in real life falling in love like this will be a far cry but I can only wish that humans are not made to live single and right permutation and combination must also exist and evolve like breathing in a typical sangam literature variety.
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