Thursday, November 5, 2026

Changing family dynamics when both wife and husband struggle for economic survival and emotional balance

We live in a world where both inflation and unemployment haunt many people as they are not able to settle down in decent jobs and their own sweet homes. Many big companies are constantly restructuring, downsizing and laying of thousands of employees for cost considerations.
In the neo liberal economic order there is nothing like secured permanent jobs with long term pension facilities. Jobs are contractualised and project based. Market economy has become pure contracing economy where money wage always lag behind prices and hence real wage is low and that makes both wife and husband to take up job to compensate. But this breaks down the the age old division of labour between wife and husband.
Increasing entry of women in a dwindling labour market also restricts the space for men to get work. Since wages offered for women are low it becomes more difficult for men to compete.
At family level there are more emotional and financial costs. Working women need to balance work and family.
In a high tech world where AI has made more in roads, really a fast and furious world unless and until the worker breathes his job and loves it and also contribute to the productivity of the firm on par with AI he or she will find unwanted.
At a psychological level when the opposite sex is entering into labour market male's chances are affected  ego is threatened.
Psychiatrist Willard Galvin sums up the existential dilemma thus:
"Nothng is more important to a man's pride, self respect, status and manhood than work.... Pride is built on work and achievement and the success that accrues from that work. Yet today men often seems confused and contradictory in their attitudes about work".
In a growing economy with all diversification job will not be a problen. But in a tariff ridden protectionist environment and recession frustrated and dominated by high energy costs, entering into a new job or holding on to existing one is a hazardous task
AI adds more insult to the injury although experts say that it will inaugurate a new era and human intelligence has got its own role to survive.
What about the stress to family when either wife or husband is out of job and social security is virtually nonexistent? How can millions of people coming out of the factory called university fit into this environment?
When these people notice the retrenchment of labour, they will have the irritability and anger and fall into depression.. When the state has abandoned its full employment objecive and inflation too is going out of control despite the alleged inflation targetting at low level life becomes really challenging. In this uncertain world  if everyone wants job befitting of his qualifications and skill he will be getting more disappointment.
More than success people want to survive with some modest income. Kindly note that women's entry can't be stopped as the role of women has changed for the better. Male ego is sandwiched between AI and women's entry.
To be continued 

Tuesday, November 3, 2026

After 3 years Tamil Nadu Government revives 6 am shows for Tamil films:is it meant for excess demand for the cinema obsessed Taml fools or supplier's greed to mop up and squeeze the maximum money in the first week of new movie release?

The title of this blog will convey what is at stake. It is not a surprise  that à person who came from film industry and became CM just like that backed up by social media warriors well manufactured and begging the young children by molsting their mind( i use expression like molesting of currencies by speculators ) and requesting them to cajole dad  mom chittappa  periappa and uncles to vote for him and make CM.

He has revived the scheme and brought change, welcome change for the steadfast fans and money mongering producers qnd distributors.
Already TN has been soaked into drugs and third rate cinema  although a few good movies have also started coming

6 am is not the time for movie or tasting liquor or watching mobile. Even if the people want sorry  die hard fans want the government has got a social responsibility to regulate and monitor the social health of the society.
I approach this subject purely from economic view and heath concerns.
I also read that for a road showrun by the CM many college students were roped in just to see the handsome face and not to hear any thought provoking speech.
Cinema industryis now competing wth politcs industry  which has been already criminalized and corrupted by hoolgans as shown by various reports.
At a time when education has becme costly  inflation has made heavy in roads into family budget and getting job is a life tie activity  mre focus on cinema  and clamour for raising raising the price of ticket without controlling black money deals  this kind of feverish enthusiasm to allow 6am show does not make much sense.
The youth discovers beauty and power in the movie and does not unravel the inherent potentials to update the knowledge.

Sunday, November 1, 2026

Speech prepared for one of my grand daughters which is important : Being good or becoming great and famous

Good morning / afternoon. Learned judges, my dear teachers and  fellow student friends.
I stand before this August assembly to share my thoughts on the topic given with the help of Tamil literature i have learnt in my primary school days.

Which is important 
Being good or 
Becoming great and famous?
If good people are also great and famous that is simply great. That will be an ideal combination but alas it is not destined to be in real life with a few exceptions.

I have learnt  fro scholars, " great men ar almost always a bad men ". I know that ine can't generalize like this  but the fact of the matter is that it is invariably so.
Saint valluvar says that unless we leave behind our legacy and fame  after death there is no meaning in our birth and it is good that we were not born.
Yes i know that becoming great and famous is important. But an  equally important thing is that being good and doing more good things are more important. But unfortunately those who get the chance to enjoy power and authority go astray and become bad human beings. Power corrupts and absolute power gives misplaced arrogance and corrupts absolutely in a reckless manner. They do not mind  not becoming good because they prefer to remain bad and want to get rid of good from circulation. This is what Gresham Law means... Bad money drives good money from circulation. I would say bad drives out good.
Being good is more important than becoming great and famous because one will get real joy and bliss in life only by virtuous acts and good character. Aram is more important.
Good people desire to lead a virtuous life, remain honest, do not envy wealthy, or covet another person's wife. They may not be rich but will not forget charity. They will not be angry for flimsy mistake of others. They will only give and not grab from others.They will give and forgive and  forget all the unpleasant deeds of others. They will feed the needy and hungry  subject to the budget constraints.
They will have trust and Faith in friends once they were chosen. They will emulate the great ones only when they are good. For them there's no envy or hatred towards anyone. They will never lie or give false promises which they can't keep. They will speak only truth and aways keep the good of the society in mind.
They will not talk ill of others nor forget gratitude. Every word they speak will be good and beneficial and all their earnings will be through honest means. They will refrain from doing anything bad.

Thus far i have articulated the view that being good and Righteous is far more important than becoming great and famous by the fraudulent route. I have marshalled my arguments from Avvaiyr's Athisoodi and valluvar's Thirkkuràl.
Sir i will be happy to remain good and honest rather than being and becoming great and famous by treacherous deeds.
I make a request to my beloved fellow friends that our Language Tamil is the greatest ancient one full of the pearls of treasure... We must dig them  eat them by chewing slowly relishing the life every moment.
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Saturday, October 31, 2026

Concluding part of the story of the Happiness multiplier a term i have coined

THOUGH the hut was reduced to ashes by the fire  poor man's spirit was not shaken and in no time he rebuilt it with renewed vigour and sheer hard work. The boy was the witness to watch  this miracle and he was amazed by the way in which his father reinvented his work ethics and relied on his only capital physical strength ie the labour power.

Having been a witness to the tenacity and inordinate capacity to wotk as also love the humanity the young boy was determined to take his dad as a role model.ie he decided to study well get into a good job and also render service to the society.

His countrymen eventually elevated him to the position position of the President of the country. All these happened on account of a simple smile springing from  the beautiful face of one girl..

PostScript 
This was the story of a 13 year old girl from Barbara Hawk told by Madan in Q &A section Aananda Vikatan dated October 19 1997.

This was an exercise for me in translation.
It was not merely a mechanical translation.. I got into author's frame and mind and added further refinement without wounding or offending the spirit of the write up 
In my original write up at that time i wrote 
Link the story with the spillover effects in open economy macro economics.
After sending voice message to Pàul Raja in London i am completing the blog which i began after returning from morning walk 

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Thursday, October 29, 2026

A story read long ago and translated into English.. An example how a happiness multiplier works

A lady gently smiled at a person looking depressed. Rejuvenated by her smile his heart got lightened. Instantly he remembered the timely help rendered to him by his old friend. Reaching home the first thing he did was to write a letter to him thanking his friend profusely.

The said friend who was dining at a restaurant took this letter from his pocket and read again. He was so overwhelmed by the sentimental concern and love expressed there in, he became happy and offered a heavy tips to the bearer.

This served  as an incentive for the server to work harder and for longer hours.Highly impressed with his  work performance the owner of the restaurant came forward  give him a lump sum bonus. As it happened to be his first bonus the bearer decided to share fifty percent of the amount with  his best  lesser privileged friend.
The impoverished friend , propelled by this benevolence  while returning home saw a small puppy trembling with cold under heavy rain. He took  the puppy with  all affectionate concern  and reached his hut.
The same night when the hut got fire the small puppy barked at high pitch and woke up the master and his son
Battery needs to be charged in The Tablet 
To be continued.

Saturday, October 24, 2026

we need poet Bharathi's Righteous Anger, the anguished anger part

 As a person i have been disorderly orderly and regularly irregular in going for morning walk.
I see many young and the old people regularly owning the beach for a while every day both in the morning and evening.
Today when i started my scooter it was just drizzling... Had tea at coffee 99 shop and went to beach... Then it started raining heavily. With rain coat covering the head and chest i didn't mind the rest of the body sweetly bathed by the fresh rain water.
I saw many youngsters and some middle aged ones too wearing T shirts labelled a slogan
No to Drugs and say yes to life in Tamil
Casually translated it boils down to this.
We also this kind of Marathon in chennai sometime ago.. But the irony was the gentleman who came as a winner was found later in the last few days with a huge quantity of drugs worth nearly 1000 crores. Different estimates were given say 300 or400 crores. It seems he belongs to the ruling party.
I don't know how many years the law enforcement agencies will take to punish these wrong doers.
It is disgusting and frustratingly irritating that the chief minister of a state or the prime minster of the country have not opened their mouths.
These rulers coming from not good background, soaked in politics of hatred blame the previous regime  not just yesterday  but yesterday 's yesterday regime..
The media  print as also the social side do  not articulate enough to help cultivate awareness as to how to sentence the anti social and anti national elements because they are sprinkled across the parties and the ruling segment is in a privileged position withou being caught and punished immediately.
Marathon running is good.
But it must not be notional
The scoundrels who are in it have no right toindulge in it as if they are 24 carrot gold.
How many youth running are good  honest  and committed to the family and to the country 
Do they know their power and beauty
Do they have any sense of duty and responsibility 
Can they distinguish between reels life  cinema and real life.
Why good leaders like Nallakannu or honest IAS officers kind do not merit any attention 
Why the the judiciary remains a silent spectator or bystander.
Should not they come forward to collar the criminals, the so called crimininalised segment of politicians  bureaucrats and bankers 

People must cultivate poet Bharathi's Righteous Anger.
To be continued 

sorry i have been neglecting my blog writing

For long Facebook consumed my time and i didn't use Tablet and today i have charged it.. Let me confess that i have accumulated a great deal of academic debris and i am weighed down by sheer volume. Today i wrote on UN in order to draw attention to CNA's quote.
I know there are quite a few who do care to see the blog. I must write periodically articulate on varied themes and share my views.
Hope the wise and benevolent destiny will guide and goad me to actively involve in academics  notwithstanding my declaration that on August 6, 2026 i officially i retired from academics.