Who is the biggest problem/villain in your life ?

Life is a game .Somtimes we win and most of the times we lose. It is not that you do not work or make any effort. What differentiate the winners from losers is that they do not leave things to fate and they take  full responsibility for their actions and do not blame others for their failure.

 Sometimes it is said that winners  do not do different things ,but they do things differently. They do not just day dream and know full well that vision without action is hallucination and that vision with action is conviction. Small wonder then they do not meekly submit to fate.

 They also know that for success a little bit luck is also needed aqnd how do they invite to their doorsteps; they do all the spade work and the much needed luck visits upon them “when opportunity meets their preparation”. what matters eventually is sustained efforts and a positive attitude towards life. Many of us lose whenever we allow the fatalistic attitude to dominate over the normal positive approach.

Kural contains a lot of wisdom in this regard. Shiv Khera, the author of   YOU CAN WIN  says that his book was rejected by about 100 publishers and the defining moment in life came when he listened to the speaker Norman Vincent Peale; he got the wisdom, the stumbling block was not others but himself ie  he was the biggest problem in life. With the positive attitude, the direction of the life changed.