When Intelligence is hijacked by Hormones-Santosh Kumar.P, H.R.Professional writes:

Dear Sir,

I was going through your recent post, “fusing friendship into love & sex – an ideal medicine for peace & bliss”. In the recent times, the news channel flashed a hot news on one swamiji’s leela, clandestinely taken by camera. 14th Feb Valentines Day, was also made into an issue by some political parties in India; I have been thinking on this question, for quite sometime.

I feel that more than celebrating Valentines Day, there is an imperative need for educating the young minds on love and Sex which are designed by the super power for a healthy and happy life. The rule of the nature is, every specie living on this planet atempts to reproduce and hence human beings are also not an exception. The present young generation, in a large measure takes life for granted and they want to do whatever they want with their body, unmindful of the consequences. Because, they are of the opinion that with advancement in the medical technology, there is a cure for everything.

I am a management graduate and also possess knowledge on human psychology & my wife is a Gynecologist. What I would like to communicate to the younger generation especially the opposite sex is that what happens to their body before marriage is important and they should not experiment too much, as westerners do.

The young generation is being exposed to sex at the young age of 10 to 12 thanks to the access to internet. If you go through medical records in recent times the number of cases of abortion is more with unmarried females: this includes both educated & uneducated females in cities & villages between the age group of 18 and 25. The figure is only an under estimation, as the private practicing doctors don’t release the exact data.

But young girls are unable to understand what would happen to their health in later years of their life. Due to abortion or taking birth control pills...etc before marriage, many problems like miscarriage, breast cancer, cervical cancer, urinary infection…etc., take place after marriage. It’s important to understand that the female body is made of chemicals or Hormones that play their role. .Multiple affairs with partners before marriage have their own consequences. Later they know the importance of the relationship between husband & wife & of the parenthood. We see so many divorce within few years after marriage. I am not saying that sex & sexuality are bad or dirty; they are perfectly fine only when they are conducted in a conducive atmosphere of healthy family life, and not before marriage.


There are so many medicines or drugs available in the market; companies show very good advertisement, but they never picture the side effects of the drug & how it causes damage later to the body. We may take the drugs to rule over the act, but later the drug will be ruling your life. Then feeling sorry for life has no meaning. The present generation has a lot of confidence that they can achieve whatever they want in life, but what is required is to know more about life, and follow some ethics in life.

In one of the interviews of Sadhguru Jiggi Vasudev, when asked about by one who is thinking all the time about sex , the swami said that there is nothing strange about it and it is just that his intelligence has been hijacked by his hormones.

Watch
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kNMKdrEVhsk (www.ishayoga.org )
The Younger generation has to understand the rules of life. There is a lot to enjoy in married life and don’t get misled in the teens. Request for the parents: They need to spend more time with their children & discuss the issues rather than watching tele serials on TV; they should treat them like friends & the parents must see that their children get married at 26years:Late marriage will have their own set of problems :career is also important , but life is more important than anything else.
What is missing today is the communication between children & parents. There is so much to learn from our Indian heritage & culture. Parents should make their children to learn any classical music instrument or Yoga or classical dance right from their childhood without affecting studies .This kind of active life will give them the confidence, maturity & discipline in life during their adolescent years.
As the wording goes, Your Wisdom is, as vast as sky…, You have filled life around you, with wonders & loveliness.., You make our world Beautiful, You give love in the form of Sister, Friend, Beloved, Wife, in the form of Mother, in the form of Grandmother & .so on.