Monday, April 28, 2014

when It fails to rain the farmer,the ocean and the Devas will sufer

Just imagine for a moment that the Rain god refuses to provide rain. what will happen then.kural says that in the absence of any rain water trickling down from the sky to the earth, not even a single blade of grass will grow here. All the living creatures will scorch themselves to hunger and death , notwithstanding a enormous amount of  water enveloping the earth. That vast expanse of water is of little significance to the masses.The resulting poverty and famine, pestilence and fear will inflict more pain and last for long without any kind of redemption.

If the quantum of rainfall declines reflecting the depletion of water resources above the farmers will not take their ploughs and perform their farming activities and agriculture as an occupation will get a severe beating and will get eventually abandoned.

It is not just farmers and of course all the consumers will lose in the life game but also the spillover effects will touch the heaven above and the ocean below. If the rain gathering clouds dry out themselves faster  who will bother to appease the rain God  by giving the offerings in the form of  all gifts and Pooja. That is , the exalted status enjoyed by the ministers among Devas in charge of rain will be deleted in the minds of people.

In the same vein even the great oceans constantly roaring on earth in an endless fashion will come to their grief by losing their innate quality and attributes-their  inherent fertility and the utility .When the rain giving clouds are inadequate  and hence  unable to have the necessary  room for romance through thunder and lightning.



Saturday, April 26, 2014

the earth sustains life with god given amrita

The foundation for the existence of all kinds of life on earth is not just love of different vintage and shades but also the meaningful work-the work which will satisfy your soul besides assisting the less privileged and marginalised. For all these to happen, the timely monsoon rain must arrive at the appointed hour. Yes gentlemen all the activities in the world revolve around the rain which Valluvar calls amrita the staple diet of Devas residing above going by mythology.

The earth rotates and presents itself as an entity fully viable and operative because of the rain that falls from the sky above. Calling the rain water as Amrita the sacred and divine element is built into the frame gong by the faith and belief that the divine drink will cure all ailments, slow down the ageing process and give full immunity,  sorry impart the immortality to Devas.The rulers are stupidly arrogant not to realise that the human body is made up of more water and that one should drink more water which should be accessible and affordable to all. It is the tragedy of this country and also elsewhere that it has become a tradable commodity and cutting across the political flag many monsters make quick money not by treating it as a public good but as a private sector domain satisfying their greed to make money

Ensuring of the copious rainfall during the monsoon and also generating the same via catrastphic depression is an empirical proof of the transmission mechanism of the Divine grace form above. Abundant solar energy heats up the sea water. It is then effortlessly converted into rain gathering clouds which float around for a while before bombarding the earth at the appointed hour. Now the science and technology is so advanced  that it can be predicted with some degree of accuracy.



The ancient Tamil literature eloquently argues that it fails to rain and as a result the farm yields decline the rulers of the land would be found fault with. Where are we now? Why the hell we are not harvesting the rain/ Whom shall we blame? Rogue politicians and politicians economists whom Paul Krugman calls as policy entrepreneurs  whe do not hesitate  to tell what the politician wants to hear?

Friday, April 25, 2014

My dateless diary(17-11-2001) not edited:Mother shold not be found fault with

My dear Sam/Confronting with your aged  and  good mother
With angry and unfeeling words
Is truly an unruly behaviour-really contrarian behaviour?
Uncharacteristic of your personality and intent

She sat helpless and speechless, utterly numb in heart and mind
With profound and endless love on either side
Why did you shout at her creating tremor in her heart
A study heart which only loved the people around day in day and out
A truly sacrificial life

Dear sam don’t repeat this behaviour for
This is your contrarian behaviour, an alien culture.
Help her cajole her while she is alive.
A mother can only behave like a mother only.

Be proud of her and be thankful to her for what she has laboured
Along with her soul mate your great father who never tasted
Anything of the comforts zone in life or even the simplest pleasures of life.
Slowly, painfully you would soon realize her positive contributions

In shaping your personality and attitudes in life/

My dateless diary(17-11-2001),redrafted:getting out of the secret sadness.

Unlike Ramana Maharishi I can’t ask the question?
Who am I?
I am just a simple person an ordinary man
Unfortunately bracketed with the educated and elite
By historical accident and benevolent fate symbolized by
Strong parental genes and brought up in an unspoilt village of those days.

No great virtues and not much menacing vices
But I must hasten to add, like any ordinary man
I have all the devils in abundance in my heart and mind
Thank God, many a time I have not gone
As free as the mind had dictated or desired or imagined
An unseen hand has always protected me from
Falling into dirt and filth-the Satan’s Paradise

Being violently irritated with happening in the country
Watching the silent sufferings and the 
Aggressive submission of the masses for ages and centuries
And thus denied of all the simplest pleasures of life                       
Inclusive of chaos at work place, home and street corner,

Each morning I awoke early morning not fully refreshed.
The Result: The whole day did not belong to me
Like the whole country do not belong to the majority poor
Earlier we get out of this secret sadness
The chaos theory in full play

 The better for the country

Thursday, April 24, 2014

Buying to time to soak myself in kural by revising my dateless diaries

Love is just beautiful and wonderful and a big word
Much used and more abused and least understood
The more we try to capture its infinite variety
Varying shades of meaning and feeling
In its narrow and broader sense,
We fall short in our efforts.

But Kural attempts to exemplify and glorify its
Special virtues and values in an ideal setting
Which may not prevail in today’s concrete jungle.
My modest ambition and ardent desire to reinvent
The classical love life much forgotten today
By sheer madness in pursuit of accumulating riches
And searching for everything in life
Except to life with a passion and commitment
To do something tangible and solid for the society

It takes time to internalize the spirit and the sweetness
The text and context Of the classical Treatise in ancient literature.
Until then I will revisit my dateless diary and
Pour out the torrential rain of my feeling and
Pleasant   sufferings which were showered upon me
Like good southwest monsoon rain
Which is likely to play a truant this season
And going to torment the next PM of the

UNITED STATES OF INDIA.

Wednesday, April 23, 2014

The magical power of Love

“God be thanked the meanest of His creatures
Boasts two soul sides, one to face the world with
One to show a woman whom  he loves her”.

These are the lines of Robert Browning. To what extent one thanks the creator and passionately loves his girl and also carries out his work ethics to build home and serve the country he or she alone knows.

Life on earth becomes meaningful only in the company of woman( and books and here we can add many things which give any sinless satisfaction).It is really a misfortune for many remaining  outside the zone of marital life as they are not able to stumble upon a right partner  inclusive of those who are separated by the cruel and wicked fate that love as a diet and a medicine is denied for enriching their mental and physical health.
Like a rising sun in the mountain, full moon floating on the sea, and gentle breeze sweeping the forest trees  ,love is the natural, normal and the most commonest expressions of all animals including human .Without the emotional warmth and affectionate embrace of the lover, the physical world does not have any meaning.

In shaping human dignity and values of life  and lessening the pain of the very existence in life, love plays  a biological function leading to more cooperation, mutal regard and respect. Love has the  magical power to transform the most ordinary life –the  hum drum existence of daily living, into an extraordinary one .That is in the presence of pervasive and all powerful love , the struggle for life will not interfere with the enjoyment of existence. In the company of a woman the good becomes better and  better, the best.I might be exaggerating the benefits and fruits of enjoying simple and beautiful things in the pleasant company of  woman by word play but it is just a fact. As someone told ,

“True love is a durable fire,
In the mind ever burning
Never sick, never dead, never cold                                                                  

From itself  never turning”.

The Rich fruit Of Love

Having written more about the theme of love as articulated in kural, let me dwell upon that theme further. Life is not merely about acquiring of more knowledge or settling down in good position, although one needs some money to sustain life. To lead a good and rich life one need not have riches or more money. Indeed with less education and insecure job, many poor people lead a honest and good life and help the humanity with tremendous work ethics. Like some deepest truths are very simple ,life in its truest sense is also  very simple.; it is all  about allowing the hearts to  meet and melt In a spontaneous fashion without allowing the molecules of brain to reason out /dictate or dominate and thus indulge in cost-benefit calculus. Here i am talking the ideal and there is an infinite distance of the actual

Love is a source of delight and it goes without saying that absence of love is a source of pain. All  your accomplishments and achievements are next to nothing if there is no one at your side to share with and celebrate your work. That praise like a good wine will keep you in good humour and intoxicated by that you will labour more and render more service to the humanity.

I read somewhere that we can afford to live even in a Godless world but not in a universe devoid of love. An anonymous author wrote long ago:

Oh Love! They wrong thee much
That say thy sweet is bitter
When thy rich fruit is such

As nothing can be sweeter.

Wednesday, April 16, 2014

Thinking about separation she is afraid to embrace



































The committed and the most ardent lovers would not like to be separated even for a moment more particularly in the early days of marital life and or dating. But how could we expect him to get buried on her lap perpetually and get soaked in love forever? Should he not go and do work so as to keep the fire of love alive.

But the lady of Kural will not permit that sensible decision. However she is sensible enough to understand that she cannot stop him from going for work. Valluvar .explains her pain even while she remains with him in full embrace
.
Long ago his sight was
A feast to me,
Now I am even afraid
To embrace him,

Lest he would leave me
What a cruel pain,
Even while embracing



Thinking about separation She is afraid to embrace him



































The committed and the most ardent lovers would not like to be separated even for a moment more particularly in the early days of marital life and or dating. But how could we expect him to get buried on her lap perpetually and get soaked in love forever? Should he not go and do work so as to keep the fire of love alive.

But the lady of Kural will not permit that sensible decision. However she is sensible enough to understand that she cannot stop him from going for work. Valluvar .explains her pain even while she remains with him in full embrace
.
Long ago his sight was
A feast to me,
Now I am even afraid
To embrace him,

Lest he would leave me
What a cruel pain,
Even while embracing



A LEADER SHOULD BE LIKE A PASSIONATE LOVER CARING FOR THE COUNTRY

We have seen  how the lady delinked from her lover for a short while makes her cry.The lady is so soft and tender that her full cry over her separation from lover dimmed the beauty of her enchanting eye.
Many have lost their spark and youthfulness in the glass curtain economy of IT industry and software outsourcings sector working in late hours and sitting before the monitor endlessly as if it is their EYE AND LIFE and much worse the work climate there dominated and frustrated by insipid and stupid leadership sometimes.

There are  workers operating in that inimical work environment with temperamental shyness, cultured silence and eyes fully dried up and swollen. Like the lover to our girl will a new leader emerge to cleanse away the dirt and filth accumulated over the years in order that the stupidity and the criminality of the system will come to an end once and for all


When the lover returns back the girl gets back the lost beauty. When the good leader arrives at every level the workers regain their lost opportunities .Under the circumstance love will overflow and embrace the entire nation like a gentle breeze sent from heaven

Tuesday, April 15, 2014

EYES LOSE THEIR INNATE BEAUTY BY PROFUSELY CRYING OVER THE SEPARATION OF HER LOVER

For nearly a week i was away from Pondicherry and spent quality time with my grandson. I am not getting the environment  to sit and do work. There is some urgent official work. Amidst all these I go back to our Kural to meditate on the eye the focal element in our theme of love:

Now a day, a mere sight of beautiful flowers,
Make my eyes,
Tremble with shyness
Shall I tell the reason?
Leaving me in lurch,
Inflicting pain on me,
My ardent lover has gone
To far off place.
Thinking about my lover,
My eyes have shed copious tears.
And profoundly lost their innate beauty .


This Kural not only depicts the flight of labour towards the greener pastures elsewhere but also captures the agony the ladylove experiences after the separation. Her beautiful eyes have lost the natural beauty because of crying over the separation

Tuesday, April 8, 2014

Musings on love life will resume after a short break

From the select episodes of the language of love articulated in the previous pages which is only a sample  it is obvious and apparent that Valluvar has mastered the art of constructing a neat framework on the theme called love.  It is not just theory or a fantasy nor imaginative conceptualization. It is sincerely believed that he was an inventive genius and the energetic intelligence he had, was fully deployed to explore the unexplored territory of the most mysterious and the most unpredictable character called a girl in the drama of life. The treatment of love was only a preliminary one and a detailed study will be undertaken at a later stage,depending upon the time constraint to read and trandlate the treasure house of knowledge.

The need for greater and better understanding of life begins with love life that starts in the teenage when the opposite sex mingles together attracted by  each other like a magnet. The ancient classical literary text has  underlined the important attribute that there was love life before and after marriage, providing lasting peace and friendship.





















Having analyzed very little about love from Valluvar’s perspective we need to understand its importance which has been diminishing in recent years. Crazy we are in running after power, position, money, fame and of course beauty not in its purest form but related to the said above in a very mean and silly way.
 The meaning of love and the institution of marriage may have degenerated over time and one does not know to what extent they have any real meaningful analytic content today. But one thing is sure enough that Valluvar has documented that the ancient Tamil society had led a dignified love life with all its tenderness, fineness, stubbornness and all the rich  flavor surrounding it.  This life was both endearing on the marital sands and elevating on the spiritual plane. The life in its totality was lived with all eagerness, earnestness, integrity, and commitment and of course a clearer and full understanding of each other.
In today’s hot, flat and crowded world (courtesy, Thomas L Friedman), there are complex problems affecting individuals  as also nations. Under the circumstance there is an imperative need to repair and rejuvenate family life – the life at home so that genuine and simple love would flow among all the members in the family.



Valluvar"s Inventive genius unravelled the mystery and the Infinite Variety

From the select episodes of the language of love articulated in the previous pages which is only a sample  it is obvious and apparent that Valluvar has mastered the art of constructing a neat framework on the theme called love.  It is not just theory or a fantasy nor imaginative conceptualization. It is sincerely believed that he was an inventive genius and the energetic intelligence he had, was fully deployed to explore the unexplored territory of the most mysterious and the most unpredictable character called a girl in the drama of life. The treatment of love was only a preliminary one and a detailed study will be undertaken at a later stage,depending upon the time constraint to read and translate the treasure house of knowledge.


The need for greater and better understanding of life begins with love life that starts in the teenage when the opposite sex mingles together attracted by  each other like a magnet. The ancient classical literary text has  underlined the important attribute that there was love life before and after marriage, providing lasting peace and friendship.

Monday, April 7, 2014

The lady love has supreme faith in her lover,her soul mate for ever

In the same way the girl also feels that she is not able to forget the lover.  Even when she is told that her lover has abandoned her and gone, she will be the last person to believe that scandal.  She has so much faith and belief in him that he will not leave her.  Let us just see how Valluvar paints an interesting canvas to express her finer feelings towards him.  She says “I have locked my lover into my eye, he will not leave me. Do you know even while my eyelids move and strain him gently, he will not suffer? Yes he is such a nice fellow that he has simply entered into my ethereal body and has fused into my soul.
This is an interesting case study tha even while he  is far away from her  on dutiful mission in search of a lucrative work she is confident that her man will always reside in her heart and their love affair is not only steamy but also a soul sibling experience.
She is so infatuated and intoxicated with him that she wants to keep him in her eye safely for ever and thatm is the reason why she is not at all bothered about the unfriendly words of the folk around her bent on blaming the lover by way of the character assassination. Blame it all on the lover slogan ,she would be the last person to buy .:
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 While lamenting over the separation of her lover she sheds copious tears and as a result even the eyes loose the colour. Furthermore, when he has gone in search of job and education she is able to feel his presence only in dreams. The waking hours are the torture for her and she prays and grumbles that she must sleep so that he would be in her dream perpetually.


HER EYES DO THE ALCHEMY AND SHE HAS A STRANGE FIRE

A stage comes next when their eyes meet there is no need for words to convey all the finer feelings FLOATING IN THEIR HEARTS. That is  when the pair of eyes do the talking and distinctly reveal the craving towards each other. The words springing  from the mouth will be of no use.Yes, there is little to converse as their eyes have already expressed adequately
After a series of continual eye contacts the language of love has been adequately revealed and  internalized into their souls .They become closer. Notwithstanding  this closeness and intimacy, when they meet in public they would look and behave as if they are typical strangers. This kind of public posture giving only a common look is the hallmark of lovers The same eyes do this alchemy but it is hardly noticed by others
Having enjoyed all the five senses of pleasure he feels that any kind of separation would make him uneasy and unhappy. He says when he gets closer to her she makes him cool and pleasant.  Even if he is separated for a while he is scorched  like  the sun. He wonders where she got this strange fire.

    No one could  express the pain of   Separation ,even if it is just the momentary one  in this classic way.Fully clothed by the fire of love the lover attempts to investigate the strangeness of this fire  which keeps him cool when she is near  but makes him warm when she moves slightly moves farther away.

THE LANGUAGE OF LOVE SPOKEN SUBTLY THROUGH EYES

In the previous piece we observed that She has wonderful eyes and he lamentsby saying  that her seductive look makes him sick. So he is scared of that look and to cure the ailment he needs the same eyes to look at him again gently so that the disease will melt away.

In the early stages of love formation when he looks at her with all eagerness she looks at the ground with an element of shyness. But when he doesn’t She gently and stealthily smiles at him. Here we notice that She exchanges her glance with a time lag. Her secret smiles convey all the love and there is reciprocity of exchange in glancing at each other

His heart is virtually devoured/swallowed by her flirting look and he knows fully well that it conveys all her love towards him. It is interesting to note that the language of love is spoken through the eyes which are seductive and also curative to the core.



HER EYES ARE THE PROBLEM AND ALSO THE SOLUTION

Until he met her he did not know which the life killing force on earth is. Now he realizes that it was only her eyes. Here  an analogy from my subject I would like to mention. Warren Buffet a great human who could make a lot of money in stock market and contribute more to charity once described the derivative instruments as weapons of mass destruction. In the recent 2007-08 global financial crisis this financial innovation played an instrumental role and caused  a havoc on the entire world. That was the financial Tsunami.

Here our lover bombarded by the eyes-the weapon of her destruction is undergoing akind of  Love tsunami. He had never known the harbinger of death until he saw her. The messenger of death had come in the form of powerful eyes of a female warrior and he could not face it. Imagine the lover who had faced many wars in life now only understand who the Lord of death is.The lover knows that one will get intoxicated after drinking wine. But here a mere sight of her makes him dizzy bewildered, and bemused. A mere look alone fills him with a kind of lust and kama that even a seasoned good old wine would provide the kick. She is more than the wine
She has wonderful eyes and he observes that her seductive look makes him sick. So he is scared of that look which has all the kick of the intoxicants To get rid of the love sickness and  cure  that disease he needs an  ailment  which is nothing but  the same eyes which initially caused problem. But it is no problem when the same eyes become solution as they look at him again gently so that the disease will melt away.

I have learnt in my subject that IMF is more of a problem than a solution and that to a market lover Government is a problem than a solution. Here is an intersting result that in the battle of love eyes are the powerful weapons causing him problem but the very same beautiful seductive eyes calm him down like a scented balm producing all the soothing effects. What a wonderful pair of eyes: one look causes pain and another look has the contrarian effect  removes the pain.This dual role purpose is interesting and the pain of love is worth undergoing provided there are seductive eyes for you  and  for your eyes only 

HER INNATE NATURAL BEAUTY HIJACKS HIS HARMONES;STRUGGLES FOR WORDS TO DESCRIBE HER

Almost all the poets, while dealing with the subject love, give pride of place to the ‘eye’, which really becomes an ‘electronic media’ to kindle love and enrich it.   Any poet will have his own element of exaggeration, dramatization but still it reveals more truth than it conceal. Eyes of the beautiful girls are the strongest assets which will simply hijack the males just like that and Valluvar says thatthey are the most powerful weapons on earth.
Since it is only a very very preliminary study we confine ourselves to some select kurals which depict the finer feelings from the standpoint of both boy and the girl.
The lover is so crestfallen by the beauty and he is at a loss to figure out who she is? He praises by saying whether she is one who looks like an angel -so magical or mystical or a colourful pretty peacock with heavy rings on her earlobe  and her sharp glances look like knife or powerful arrows aimed at him. Enchanted with this divine beauty and completely hijacked by her infinite variety, his heart  craves and sighs for her..
The lover is so scared of her eye which penetrates like an arrow or knife in his eye for the simple reason that the eyebrows could not stay firm and prevent her entry.

She is a shy girl having the eye of the deer and her modesty by itself is a jewel.  Therefore he says she does not require any external gold makeup. With her deer like look and all the intoxication in her eyes the damsel is on full song to captivate him

KURAL IS SENSUALLY SPIRITUAL AND SPRITUALLY SENSUAL

The explanation or treatment of love is also elevated to the spiritual plane, i.e., ‘sivam’ in male would like to be united with ‘shakthi’ in a female.   Indeed it’s a symbolic act of jeevathma joining with Paramathma.
Precisely for this reason, the ancient Tamils took sufficient care to develop and nurture this love as an art and attempted to build and construct a superstructure in the form of grammar and literature in a large measure.   The significant point to note about love is that it just flowers from within and all the five senses are able to enjoy it earlier – a rare attribute which none can match, in terms of pleasure offering objects. 
Vallvar says that it is only in a girl adoring the beautiful bangles on her slender hand the lover –her man can feel  the joy of  touch, sight, sound, smell and taste and  in essence  all   the five  sensual pleasures are summed up in her—a rare attribute indeed
In that sense, whether one likes it or not in a limited sense a girl is commoditified and treated as an object.   But it should be remembered, having said that a girl is a wonderful phenomenon and that five senses could easily perceive that divine infinite beauty, kural does not proceed towards commoditification and ill treatment of the other sex but instead lays down all the unwritten rules like constitution to impart sanity in man-woman relationship.
The entire drama of life starts or begins with eye contact, but ultimately ends up in a substantiative life, family, and children thus rendering a fruitful service to humanity.   Kural highlights the ultimate truth that these character bound lovers neither deviate from righteous path of Aram nor abandon their love, all though their life.   The essence of Kamathupal is not about lust, sex or love alone, like the other previous two, it’s also a rule based sermon as to how one should live, labour and love to live, more intimately, more affectionably with all friendliness and smiles on face.   Bharathi and Bharathidasan too glorify the beauty and strength of the eye of the beloved and how the command stemming from it would invigistrate a man’s energy and accomplish all the impossible things under the sun.   The fact that the eye is the weapon which actually arrests a person and binds him to fall in love and rise in life is ably captured by kural.


KURAL IS BOTH A DIET AND MEDICINE FOR BODY AND MIND

As is well known Thirukkural text has a perpetual meaning, relevance and content for anyone who wants to follow righteous methods and live a simple and decent life, freed from inflated ago, arrogance and all kinds of devilish spirit.   Regardless of one’s language or culture, geographical, and economic space into which he or she has to live, this text has a context and relevance as an ideal medicine or diet to take care of both body and mind.
True, many of the couplets and indeed all of them are hard real truths very difficult to follow and any typical ordinary human, cannot just like that follow, everything told there, for it demands a far more stringent attitude and discipline , strength of character, will power and good parental genes.   Every couplet is bristling with meaning, a relevance and shows a clear a path as to how to improve and prosper in our life, in all walks of life without walking away from dharma.   In the following, a modest attempt is being made to capture the flavor smells and sounds of the subject called ‘love’, the idealized love as conceptualized by kural.  
A well learned and highly disciplined man, full of good character and attitude - a handsome man, steps into an arena of life.   At this prime teenage, he understands that his life does not merely centre around him, but instead revolves round another soul; he is intelligent enough to understand that his peace and happiness are his own; he is the author of both, he knows full well that,  but it’s only partly true, he feels.   The other half of his bliss, he rightly feels rest with the other person and without her/he cannot go on in this life journey.   It is something natural and normal for a fully grown up male getting attracted by the other half of himself - a girl of his liking and choice.


WE HAVE COME HERE NOT TO LIVE ALONE

As stated earlier, all of us have come here not to live alone.   At times loneliness has its own advantages.   But basically, humans have been created to live with the partner of opposite sex.   Nature points out to the male at the right age: “Look, there stands out your girl, a fountain head of love and bliss.   She is going to make your life happy and peaceful.”   That which propels this signal is love.   It just comes out spontaneously without indulging in any cost-benefit calculus.  This act of love just flows from within, and that’s an inevitable act of nature.   For procreation and sustenance of human race, the supreme may have passed on this magnet in order that no ordinary mortal would escape from it.   It might be called as ‘Maya’ to some degree rightly so by sages, addicted to god and spiritual pursuits.   But to any ordinary good human, falling in love at the right time with a right girl of his choice cannot be commended a sinful activity.   Perhaps some exalted souls, by their sheer Karma, may have escaped from falling into a ‘net of Maya’ and not getting seduced by the infinite variety of beauty embedded into a girl.   They are only a few and far between.
It is obvious and apparent to anyone that love crops up at a particular stage and nature wants to cultivate it in a more decent, dignified and cultural way, because the component of love is very much imperative for life.   Indeed it’s the essential life-force without which, there is no progress or peace or stability, and for that matter even all our accomplishments and attainment do not have any value, in the absence of any loved ones to share with.   Of course any broader love or service to humanity at large, without confirming to a particular woman, is all the more commendable but that’s very rare in life.


TRUE LOVE IS NOT CONSTRAINED BY ANY KIND OF BARRIER

While there is always an inevitable and spontaneous urge to fall in love it is not an easy task to understand the other sex. The irony here is that, as individuals we do not know who we are and what we are and thus fail to understand ourselves, as a fish does not know much about the water in which it lives all through the life. If there is a great deal of mistrust and wrong understanding even among the family relations with tremendous blood connection, how are we going to be compatible with a stranger born in a different family environment and economic circumstances. Of course the ancient Kurunthokai padal gives a way out for this dilemma by defining love in a more sensual and spiritual way.  
In this context, it’s appropriate to quote and remember the famous Kurunthogai Padal: Translation is mine
            We don’t know each other
            In which way my father
            And your father are related?
            Like rain soaked red earth,
            Our hearts bound by love
            Have fused with each other
This fusion is more like, fixing positive with negative together to generate electricity, as if two great lightening, generate enormous amount of power.   This tendency on the part of a male to develop a peculiar chemistry and physics with a girl, at a right age, is essentially to work out his karma and work ethics, in collaboration with the other kinder soul and thus reap all kinds of pleasure and suffering in life.   Yes, no one is alone in the world and each one has a partner to live with and share all the moments of joy and agony arising out of blissful experience with a girl.


Thirukural attempts to mirror life to the fullest dealing with all that essentially constitutes life. The essence of life is to love and live in a dignified way given one’s own cultural environment and social milieu. Although human biology is an important key in dictating human behavior, it is ultimately conditioned by the culture and custom and of course the attitude of parents. Be that as it may, it is this love that rules the world with all its multidimensional manifestations, spreading with wings and radiating happiness and bliss. But there is also the other side to this love game. There is more pain and sorrow, anxiety and depression, sleeplessness and dreams and the lamentations over separations by the beloved. It is to the credit of the sage poet that he has neatly weaved all the threads surrounding love life.   
Thanks to our body given by the Almighty to enjoy successive phases of life between birth and death. Gifted we are to feel, taste and touch, to see, talk and listen, gather and share knowledge, work and relax, indulge in love, enjoy and suffer from love, all leading to a wonderful creation of a society. Thirukural unravels love and presents all that undergoes between the body and the mind.  The chemical reactions induced from hormonal secretions in both men and women at the appropriate time in life does trigger an experience from which no one can escape unless he happens to be spiritually destined by the supreme.  The precious life of the adolescence period and all the complexities arising out of emotional and sexual underpinnings need to be studied in a more subtle and detailed way, without getting trapped into any kind of vulgarity.


Towards understanding the LOVE GAME

From where does love originate?

What is that sends signals of love through our bodies? It surely starts with the brain.  It analyses what the eye sees and the ear hears and adds it up to something that moves the person.  If one further raise the question what eventually triggers it, it is probably the adrenal gland. This is what science would say about love. From the standpoint of literature, love simply means that the heart goes out to another heart via eye contact in the very first instance. Regardless of the fact, whether the heart is clean or mean, light or heavy, open or closed, warm or cold, faint or bold, love strikes any normal human. Each heart has a life of its own banging all the time right from the start of life, but also it has its own love story to reveal to others.

Thirukual and love

The fundamental knot that has been instrumental in sustaining the evolution of all kinds of life on earth for ages is love and relationship.   After satisfying thirst and hunger, all living creatures crave for love, friendship and also for fulfilling sexual urge and all biological needs.   While animals have their own limited wisdom, to mate, only to procreate  in a particular period, or are made to do so in an artificial fashion by man for his selfish end, the obvious  truth is that all living creatures have an urge for lust or kama, at one stage or another.   More than a mere lust, they seek intimacy, friendship, connectedness and in essence simple unadulterated love.
Our forefathers had an innate insight and a tremendous foresight, to understand that human life eventually rests on ‘love’ and valour (termed as Agam and Puram in the Tamil literature).   It’s not just in Tamil literature, but anywhere in the world, in any language  no literature would be complete without touching upon these twin  subjects.
Looked at this way, the ancient Tamil Text Thirukkural, besides dealing with virtues (Aram), wealth and welfare (Porul) – (the ethical/moral and worldly activities of life) also talks about the nuances  and all intricacies  of the most tender side of life, the meaningful side of human relationship – the love between opposite sexes (Inbam).

Thiukkural-a masterpiece of all times written under "iexorable pressure of diminishing time"

From Anthony Burgess (1917-1993), I have learnt that all of us live and labour here under “inexorable pressure of diminishing time” and Valluvar could make rich contribution during his time and his kural has become everlasting and more endearing to world citizens cutting across religion, region, sex, colour, and creed.
The Thirukural has three major components, namely, virtues, wealth and welfare, and love life. The first component deals with moral philosophy and ethical code of conduct for anyone, be it a King or a commoner, it serves as a gateway towards understanding the nuances of marital life and also draws a roadmap of spirituality.  The second one neatly explains how all the potentials of humanity - the immense talent, knowledge, courage and hardworking characteristics of population when exploited judiciously would result in nation becoming strong and powerful. An important point underlined in this segment is that life is given not merely to make money and amass huge fortunes but also to register one’s name and fame of his/her existence here. The third component is indeed a literary treasure – a treatise on love life. By thumbing through those pages one can turn his/her love and marital life for the better. Dealing with the most sensitive and difficult subject – understanding the natural chemistry and physics evolving between the opposite sexes at the right ripe age in the most uninhibited environment, Valluvar documents all the subtle, nicer and richer side of human life which in essence is the basic love life.
Since the third component constitutes the foundation of the life itself we focus on that aspect, given some literature background.  But no attempt is made to go into all the details and intricacies. Taking only a few kurals at random as a sample the true flavour of the subject will  be revealed.  More particularly my write up to begin with will spin  around the concept eye – a real electronic media, for idealized, cultured and highly disciplined love game which is basically a life game forgotten by mankind today.  Beyond alliterations in kural there are different interpretations in it thus presenting a unified picture about the love game.



Sunday, April 6, 2014

GOD ALONE WILL RESCUE WHEN TRAPPED INTO SEA OF BIRTH

How to get rid of a host of suffering rocking our mind? The easiest solution is to surrender and fall at the feet of the Supreme who cannot be compared to anyone. Once it is fully realized that egocentric lust and anger are the cause for coming into this world the learned/reformed /and well informed will not give room for the trapping  of themselves into that vortex of temptations and Maya.

The Supreme is a vast expanse of the sea of virtue. Unless one surrender himself at the feet of the LORD, it would be a herculean task to swim against a series of cross currents of birth and death and attain salvation.


Since He is the embodiment of all virtues and the fountainhead of bliss ,a true matchless Brahma one should  always strive for reaching His Feet. Otherwise, he or she will get deeply immersed into a sea of birth and hardly reach the shore of salvation.

Dating with God perpetually and internalizing Him

If we share our intimacy with god and just desire and float on His glory and meditate on His praise we will be freed from all evils and ills stemming from the past and current deeds, both good and bad. Once the darkness is dispelled and there is a binding with Him we will be always on song. Embracing God as the most sought after wealth and singing Hiss praise you will be freed from the karmic effects. It is an experience of internalising the attributes of God and locking it up deep into our hearts.


God is one who has broken Himself from all five sensual ego centric pleasures transmitted by body,mouth,eyes, nose and ears. If people adhering to flawless character and virtue embrace God they will live longer for all time to come and also without undergoing birth cycle. Thinking about GOD, praising of Him and adhering to His ways will generate liberation from earthly suffering and the very existence.

Surrendering At The Feet of Almighty

As stated earlier god resides in our hearts. If we remain soaked in love and unselfishness and surrender at the feet of the Lord  we will get an exalted status in life. Famed life will effortlessly follow here on earth now and also later when we exit from earth. You would live perpetually for ever without the bother of returning back again to the earthly plane.


Falling at the feet of the creator who is freed from all likes and dislikes/desire or hatred is really bliss. At no point of time earthly sufferings would envelop you. Praying to the Lord with all sincerity will liberate us  from all devilish desires and hardened hatred. All kinds of suffering flowing from the birth cycle will be simply blown over and vanish into thin air. Just imagine that blissful state  of peace and tranquillity:  no  craving for anything and not despising anything. Shall we pray the Almighty and be thankful to Him.

Saturday, April 5, 2014

The pupose of Learning is to know GOD

Those who are well read and also lucky enough to get located and discovered are not only the blessed ones but also the happiest lot. There is a sense of fulfilment of having accomplished something.valluvar asks a simple question; what is the use of learning  many books in life if you do not have an innate  tendency to think about HIM?
This simply means there is no meaning in your accumulated knowledge stemming from books when you do not fall at the FEET of the LORD WHO IS THE ultimate embodiment of knowledge under the sun..
As stated earlier, the beauty of kural is that there is no reference to to the head of the creator but only to the feet and his insistence of falling at HIS feet. - A truly benevolent feet   .That alone will help relieve the pain and put an end to the cycle of birth and death.

This further means the essence of all learning is to know and realise GOD. There is no other  purpose in accumulating knowledge other than knowing Him. What a wonderful way of propagating the secular ideals by making a pointed reference only to the feet and not the head

From Language to Mother to know God

Shall we make a transition from the Language to the Mother. when I say mother i really mean the real mother from whom all of us have come .All of us know that the moment the child comes out of the rosy warmth of the womb it cries gasping for the oxygen to sustain his/her life. Once the comfort of the womb gone ,the well protected environ no longer exists now and the child when placed on the stomach of the mother would crawl slowly towards mother’s milk filled breast and suck the god given Amirtha.Who has taught the child? How does the breast start building up the immune fortress to take care of the child?
Wihin the minutes of birth the child comes under the protective arms of the mother and other relatives. With caesarean operation the common norm  and the nuclear family a way of life, the comfort zone of Joint family hardly exists,
When the child attempts to speak a few months later  among others indescribable sounds, Am or amma  comes out. Foolishly we have substituted the words  Mom or Mummy in the place of God given vernacular tilt of om or Am sound. Of all the sounds agaram sound or the alphabet is  the fundmental and foundational one  and that help build other letters. So like the letter A, - GOD IS THE fountainhead of the entire world.,Vallvar mentions  Adhi and Baghavan to illustrate god or was he referring to mother and father as a symbolic of  god?.

In Thirukkural  there is no mention  of Tamil race or reference to tamil language and also the form of God’s Head  but only reference to HIS feet

The correspondence between the Language and the universe

The entire world is endowed with the continents of varied size and countries are filled with diverse resources –both natural and human. Likewise the inhabitants of the world speak different tongues. Sometime the languages may exist without script and still subsist merely on the  smells and sound of the language itself. Like the currency war there is also a subtle hidden sometimes  open war goes  on between the languages. Be that as it may irrespective of the style and substance ot the languages the common attribute is that they all begin with the principal sound of   A- ,called Agar am in Tamil. No language is an exception to this unwritten rule.

The Vedas and ancient literary treasure in different rich languages would propagate and preach that  A SOUND  is an integral part of the much talked about OM sound. This single letter  A signifies the fact that there  is  only one GOD but known by  different names.

The world must have been created by some force .No one could ever say with clinical precision how and why the universe was created?The origin and history of the Language and Universe have their own mystery and suspense.


One thing, Valluvar is sure enough  that each language begins with the alphabet  A-  so also the whole world begins with GOD .Regardless of HIS NAME OR FORM the fact of the matter is that the entire cosmos is bound together by one vital force love and the magic touch of GOD irrespective of the race colour creed language and the geographical barriers.    

Friday, April 4, 2014

GOD IS ALWAYS IN US AND WITH US

We shall address to the question of the abode of god. The oft repeated saying is that God is everywhere and pervades the entire universe. The saintly author also echoes this and goes further that more specially and particularly HE LIVES IN ALLOF US   IN OUR HEARTS. It is strange but true that this simple fact that HE is with us always and  also in us,  we have always tended to forget and hence ignored most of the time. When the all pervasive GOD has incarnated Himself in all of us so as to guide and goad us into action we search for Him elsewhere and more foolish we think that we can buy Him by undertaking special Pooja and donating Him costly gifts as if HE IS CRAVING for it and give boons depending upon the magnitude of gift. We do not undermine or ridicule many who search for the Divine in temples and churches including mosque. The tragedy of life is that many are unaware that He is all the time present in our lotus Heart ready to lend a helping hand and free us from all bother.


Vallvar says that identifying God and realising Him is very simple. You need to just meditate on Him and surrender at his feet and not bothering about the shape of his head or name. It is only we surrender at His feet we will be freed from all kinds of uneasiness depression and despair..Therefore what we need to do is very simple. Understand and identify his presence in our physical system and get attached to Him more firmly and more feverishly .you need not worry about anything in life. It is easier said than done. And yet we must try

Have you seen the GOD?

If we are to surrender and bind ourselves to god  how to find out him? Where is HE? Where does he live?  Can we Ordinary mortals locate Him and position in our mind.  Yes says Valluvar. Before we listen to him a brief digression to the recorded history narrated from memory:

Once when Narendra who was to become swami Vivekananda later, was feverishly in search of seeing God. At that time the wise and benevolent destiny brought him to the feet of Ramakrishna Paramahamsa the saint who believed in idol worship. While Narendra was warmly welcomed with all fondness as The saint was expecting for long, the young man was more sceptical and impatient. He asked the saint: have you seen the God?

Ramakrishna replied: I have not only seen the God but also show Him to you.

If we thumb through the pages of the ancient religious scriptures there is a treasure house of experience of many who have  narrated their godly experiences. Shall  we listen to kural now. Wait I have to type

Let us bind ourselves with one who does not have bindings

The world’s first CEO IS THE SUPREME Almighty of the entire universe. The author of KURAL says: He alone can show the way to get rid of all kinds of pain and sufferings of life and make us live longer and also do our work in a fruitful manner and deliver better. How can we live longer? What is the express way for that? All of us want to be free from all worries and sufferings. We feverishly pray and hope that they must come to an end

.Why do we live in sorrow. Pain and remain in perpetual despair? They all spring from our ignorance of life and our karma and lack of understanding of life. That ignorance is borne out of the current bindings with people and object and and all kinds of sensual relationship. How to get rid of all these and obtain peace?freed from bondage and slavery?


Valluvar says that the only way out is that we should bind ourselves with ONE WHO DOES NOT HAVE ANY BINDINGS OR TIES AND ALSO FREED FROM ALL LIKES AND DISLIKES.Yes.God is the Principal force of life sustaining  all the creatures – an everlasting and more enduring one.should we not endear  ourselves to HIM and hold on and simply surrender? In order that we shall be DELIVERED from our pain and sorrow.

Thursday, April 3, 2014

TRAILOR ON LOVE

Before meditating on the theme of falling in love and rising in life I wasted to give my namaskar to the almighty and almost written seven to eight pages.They need to be typed.  Meanwhile I would like to post the tailor on love.
As stated earlier there is no space to chart in detail about all the facets of love life as depicted by Valluvar. We shall highlight the essence of this subject by making recourse to a few kurals. The lovers in the conceptualization of Valluvar are experiencing not an ordinary love. It is not a mere lust or infatuation towards the attractive features of the  opposite sex/the tenderness of female body. That is, it cannot  merely be termed as a carnal animal pleasure or an ordinary/pedestrian love. It is a psychic and divine love which will help elevate humanity. The young man’s friendship with the beautiful damsel is compared  to  the relationship between the body and the soul. The analogy that Valluvar gives:  when the girl is closer to him there is life and the moment she moves away from him there is only death is the sum and substance of the entire kamathupal (1125).  Like body and soul, eye and the eyelids, life and life force, the hero develops a psychic love towards the girl.